This past week I was fortunate enough to attend the destination wedding of my godson (Felix) in a gorgeously restored 16th century chateau in the South of France. While the journey there and back had its ups and downs, the actual event, and some side excursions, certainly was food for my soul. Here’s three takeaways I brought back with me.
1: It’s Great to Glam Up Every Now and Then: Everything about the wedding was perfection: the impeccable chateau, the grounds and gardens. There were about 100 guests, all in black tie and full length gowns. The bride and groom were flawless---just look at the bride’s chic and understated hair and gown! A red carpet stretched across the lawns to the ceremony and then reception was held in the garden, with champagne flowing all night. I was honored to be seated next to one of my all-time heroes, the legendary hairstylist Jean Louis David! We whiled away the night talking about all the iconic photographers and editors at Vogue. There is so much to learn from this man’s life and philosophy, which I hope to share one day.
2: Aspire, Inspire: While I was seduced by all the trappings of wealth, I realized that much of what I saw, from the architecture and designs to the clothing and furniture, could all be acquired for less money with a little ingenuity. From the chic restaurants and hotels in Saint Tropez and all along the Cote d’Azur, where Brigitte Bardot and Alain Delon used to hobnob, to the inspiration of the colors and vibrancy on the streets, you don’t have to spend a fortune to look like a billionaire. I like to call it “trickle up effect.” You use your impressions and inspirations to aspire higher, but without breaking the bank.
3. The Best Things in Life Are Free: Traveling on to Nice was so inspiring. It gives you a new perspective after spending time in such luxury to pass through the fields of lavender and visit grottos of wild rosemary, to see the tall cedars lining the vineyards. The sights and the smells were so soothing to the soul and a reminder that we cannot take anything for granted. I mean, Nice is nice, but you become very sensitive to the real community, the workers who serve all those who are passing through.
After all, that’s what we all are doing as we travel to our destinations, just traveling on a road to a higher consciousness while serving our fellow travelers. Just please let me walk the road in Louboutins!